
1. preparation before the date :
Dress and smell nice, because you should be worth undressing and getting tasted. Pick a venue that’s relaxed, accommodates for conversation, reflects your personality - if you’re hipster then it can be an outdoor beer garden, if you’re like me well then it’s out of your budget....just kidding pick a bar that has some tasteful music and allows you two to sit in a cosy corner from where you can people watch (always a fun thing)
2. Decency :
Arrive before her, always offer to pick her up and drop her, even if you’re the ceo of Uber - you don’t want her to wait on the road or outside a restaurant all dressed up with people staring, wondering where the fuck is your unlike-a-gentleman ass. never let her wait this will definetly ruin your care for her this will show that you dont care about her .
3. courtesy :
Open the door for her, because you hate today’s feminism. Pull out a chair for her, ask her how’s she feeling today, it will kick start the conversation. Saying hi is not breaking the ice, allowing her to express emotions, get in a state of flow. something that very few men are able to crack through, that is breaking the into the soul, not just the ice.
4. positioning ( the way you sit with her )
Sit adjacent to her, not opposite her, this ain’t an interview. Touch her, as a friend, on the forearm, on the shoulder, establish your physical presence, stimulate her sense of touch, as you have already inaugurated her eyes and her nose with your appearance. Be comfortable with silence, you don’t have to fill empty spaces. The best connections are made between people who can chill silently next to each other.
5. Ask her :
may I order for you - what tingles your palate, when the sever comes always loook towards the lady first and let her place her order first (or order for her if she’s fine with you ordering for her). If you’re thirsty, fill her glass before you dare to take a sip. Care for her, not for her body. Stimulate her soul, not just her hormones. She’s a carrier of the Feminine spirit, worship her, serve her, be considerate towards her. Not from a place of neediness or desperation, but from a confident Masculine aspect, where you are playing this game of romance with her,
but with dignity, do it in a classy way, like the Argentine tango, not like a grind session at the club.
I can go on and on, but for now apply this on your next date. Men and women, any thoughts comments or additions to the above are welcome in the
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